7 benefits for a person who has gone through baby loss, miscarriage and or infertility to work with a counsellor who has gone through their own experience of this.
Acceptance – A counsellor who has already experienced miscarriage/babyloss and/or infertility can validate and affirm your experiences and feelings in a non judgemental way.
Shared experience – A counsellor who has been through miscarriage, babyloss and/or infertility has shared an experience which potentially those who haven’t experienced babyloss, miscarriage or infertility have. They understand the conflicting emotions and unique challenges it presents.
Understanding – A counsellor who has been through miscarriage, babyloss and/or infertility understands the strengths and limitations of any health service, waiting times, and the importance of clear communication and empathy.
Break the silence – A counsellor who has been through miscarriage, babyloss and/or infertility might experience a struggle to talk with those closest to them about this because they might find it uncomfortable or that some of the comments might be unintentionally hurtful.
Exploring feelings of guilt/blame – Those that have been through miscarriage and babyloss might go through feelings of guilt or blaming themselves, a counsellor who has been through this can help them explore these feelings.
Resources – A counsellor who has been through miscarriage, babyloss and/or infertility will enable clients to connect with relevant resources, support groups, recommend books, blogs and podcasts etc.
Coping strategies – A counsellor who has been through miscarriage, babyloss and/or infertility might be able to recommend coping strategies to lighten anxiety related to fertility and loss.
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